Ecclesiastes 4:9-12​
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
"Accountability provides so much spiritual growth because it allows for a safe place for us to be honest, confess our sins, celebrate our victories, pray for one another, and share what we are learning."
Select an Accountability Partner:
Select an accountability partner using the following tips:
- Pray and ask God to lead you to someone who loves Jesus, wants you to succeed, also desires accountability.Â
- Decide on a regular rhythm of discussion. Set a time, place, and frequency of meeting.Â
- With your accountability partner, discuss how you both want to grow spiritually.
- Decide on a set of goals to accomplish or questions you will ask. (Possible questions below)Â
- Commit to praying for one another regularly.Â
Meet together at least 4 times before completing this step.Â
Accountability Questions:
Starting Off:
• What are your God Sightings this week?
• What problem consumed your thoughts this week? (What went wrong?)
Spiritual:
• Have you enjoyed God’s Word regularly? (How long? Why not?)
• Describe your prayer time with the Lord. Have your prayer times led to a greater connection with the Him?
• How have you been tempted this week? How did you respond?
• Do you have any unconfessed sin in your life?
• Have you been consistent in attending worship services? How have they helped you grow?
• Have you shared your faith? In what ways? How can you improve?
Home Life:
• How is it going with your family? (quantity and quality of time, attitudes, time, irritations, disappointments, progress, relationship with Christ)
• How are your finances doing? (debts, sharing, saving, stewardship)
Work Life:
• How are things going on the job? (career progress, relationships, temptations, workload, stress, problems)
Critical Concerns
• Do you feel in the center of God’s will? Do you sense His peace?
• What are you wrestling with in your thought life?
• What have you done for someone else this week? (the poor, encouragement, service).
• How are you doing in your personal high-risk area?
These questions are adapted from Pat Morley’s book “Man in the Mirror.” For more visit www.maninthemirror.org for more.
Think this might be the next step for you?
Have a Growth Talk conversation about it! A Growth Talk is a chance to discuss with your Growth Partner the step you are preparing to take.
